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Greetings to all...

<p> 01/01/2013... The first day of  2013 shows me a few things which I believe hurts different parties. I saw some are breaking up, I saw some single being into relationship, I saw some friends hurt each other and I saw friends loving each other. I saw some walking and smiling, I saw some walking sadly and so on.  Well simple all are just like the colors of rainbow. But never loose hopes  </p>

<p> We plan things but we forgot that the best  planner is Allah. His plans are always the best for all of us. If two people being together in the hunger of His love, I believe He will help, guide and bless them always. At the same time I believe that they are promised the jannah. It's not that easy dears. </p>
<p> Here  I just want to share few things or tips to success as I believe everyone has his/her own new year resolution.Remember, new year resolution are useless if you did not change your self. So enjoy reading. </p> 

<p> The key thing is knowing what exactly you want to achieve. In other words, goal setting. Now, first of all, you need to express your goals, and it's best to express them in positive terms. For example, if you wnat to improve your diet, don't say "i want to stop eating chips," say something like " I want to eat healthy food". If you tell yourself you don't want ot eat chips, you'll be reminded of chips, and if you're always thinking to them, it'll be harder to resisst the temptation. </p>

<p> Focus on what you want. Exactly, but it's also important to be clear and specific. That's the second tip. If your objective isn't clear and specific, you won't know when you've reached it. So, for example, if you are learning the piano, don't say something like " I'd like to improve" say something more specific like " i'd like to pass the grade 1 exam." This is important, because if your goal is only "to improve", you'll never be able to reach it no matter how good you are, your performance is always improvable.</p>

,<p> It's like the saying "the longest journey begins with one small step" Yes, it is like a long journey, and if your motivation fails along the way, you will probably never reach your destination. Be sincere. By that, i mean you should be sure your goal is something you really want to achieve. For example, if you're only doing it to conform to what other people expect, your motivation may not be sustainable.This is true especailly when your goals are in conflict. For example if you want to get  work harder to get a promotion at work and also want to find more time to spend with your family, you might find that these two goals are in conflict, you may not be able to achieve both. But the conflict is avoidable if you think about your goals carefully before you begin. You need to make sure your various goals are in harmony.</p>

<p> Hope it will help you in achieving your new year resolution,. Best of luck. </p>

Sincerely,
Abdul Qahar
(your friend )