Greetings to all (^_^)
In this post, I'm just going to share what do I feel and what is my observation about the "today's princess". My post has no relation with those who are alive or dead. (like film.. hehe). So perhaps nobody takes it negatively and hope it will benefit all. So enjoy..
I observed and i admit that there a lot of changes or simply rapid changes in every single thing which also brought great changes in our princess. I know most of the girls will go against this but I don't mind as everyone has his or her own opinions.
Recently, I was sitting on a bench observing a few girls and boys a little far form me. The distance was not that much far as I can hear their voices only when they started to laugh. About 15 minutes I was sitting there and then I left. I was walking and thinking that "they are going to be someones wife. Pity her husband". I'm not blaming them but I blame today's belief where it poison the mind of (female, women, girl) that woman can do whatever men can do and it's a kind of challenge. Believe it or not, just trust me.
Let me share with you a few things here. Please do take it positively. One day, I was walking and in front of me were few girls playing among them. I tried to be slow and just shake my head. I don't say playing among them is wrong but it's simple that doing the right thing at the wrong time and place. Playing among friends it's not the problem but in public is problem. I just walk away and simply conclude "brain problem". Another day, on the way to shop I saw few girls as well walking but what happened is suddenly touch "power button". Oh God doing that in public. Again I concluded that "brain problem". So what to do.
Another scene happened when I was on my way to mosque. I heard a laughing voice coming from far but it was just like beside me. I stood for a while and when I turned Oh Allah bless them. I wish they know that the voice represent the aurat (place must be covered). You know today's people if you give them an advice which is good for them they simply reply "none of your business". Okay! none of my business. I know also that they will say "boys are the same". Oh dear understand the principal that a boy can do whatever but still they can walk with red eyes but girl never tried it. Nice to see, nice to hold, Once broken, consider sold. In certain culture, one wrong step of a girl is to spoil her rest of life. I hope you get what I mean.
Whenever I think about woman, I always feel I wish they know that, they are much more expensive than a diamond or valuable. Human protect diamond with strong security system, gourds but not women. Why? Simple answer from me is none of them know the exact value of it. A few years ago, I read I story of a school girl gave her own "crown" in replace with a piece of burger which costs RM2.50. Is that how cheap is your crown?
Here, I would like to share that, girl looks beautiful not because of her dress or the thick make up but she looks beautiful because of her attitudes. I girl looks beautiful from the way she is walking when eyes are on the ground. I girl looks beautiful when she smiles without showing her teeth, I girl looks beautiful when she control her voice and a girl looks beautiful when she talks softly. An old fashion parents will look at these criteria before making her as her daughter in law but of course she must know how to cook and how to handle house. Believe me, one of the secret to increase love between wife and husband is through cooking. Trust me even I have no experience but once you go through it you will remember me.. <wink>
Girl oh Girl
You are precious, you are valuable, you are amazing, you are powerful but try not to bow to the evil words of opposite gender where you might loose your "life" in his grip. Keep it and give it to the write person, the one who deserve it and for sure he is the person called husband. Put your price higher than diamond or be the bird high in the sky where only those who are willing to pay for will own you. Know exactly your real price and don't just bargain it as in the night market.
Be the best to own the best and if you found him, never wait till it' too late. There is no harm in doing so. You start the first step and I'm sure Allah will guide you.
Hope it will be helpful.
(^_^)
In this post, I'm just going to share what do I feel and what is my observation about the "today's princess". My post has no relation with those who are alive or dead. (like film.. hehe). So perhaps nobody takes it negatively and hope it will benefit all. So enjoy..
I observed and i admit that there a lot of changes or simply rapid changes in every single thing which also brought great changes in our princess. I know most of the girls will go against this but I don't mind as everyone has his or her own opinions.
Recently, I was sitting on a bench observing a few girls and boys a little far form me. The distance was not that much far as I can hear their voices only when they started to laugh. About 15 minutes I was sitting there and then I left. I was walking and thinking that "they are going to be someones wife. Pity her husband". I'm not blaming them but I blame today's belief where it poison the mind of (female, women, girl) that woman can do whatever men can do and it's a kind of challenge. Believe it or not, just trust me.
Let me share with you a few things here. Please do take it positively. One day, I was walking and in front of me were few girls playing among them. I tried to be slow and just shake my head. I don't say playing among them is wrong but it's simple that doing the right thing at the wrong time and place. Playing among friends it's not the problem but in public is problem. I just walk away and simply conclude "brain problem". Another day, on the way to shop I saw few girls as well walking but what happened is suddenly touch "power button". Oh God doing that in public. Again I concluded that "brain problem". So what to do.
Another scene happened when I was on my way to mosque. I heard a laughing voice coming from far but it was just like beside me. I stood for a while and when I turned Oh Allah bless them. I wish they know that the voice represent the aurat (place must be covered). You know today's people if you give them an advice which is good for them they simply reply "none of your business". Okay! none of my business. I know also that they will say "boys are the same". Oh dear understand the principal that a boy can do whatever but still they can walk with red eyes but girl never tried it. Nice to see, nice to hold, Once broken, consider sold. In certain culture, one wrong step of a girl is to spoil her rest of life. I hope you get what I mean.
Whenever I think about woman, I always feel I wish they know that, they are much more expensive than a diamond or valuable. Human protect diamond with strong security system, gourds but not women. Why? Simple answer from me is none of them know the exact value of it. A few years ago, I read I story of a school girl gave her own "crown" in replace with a piece of burger which costs RM2.50. Is that how cheap is your crown?
Here, I would like to share that, girl looks beautiful not because of her dress or the thick make up but she looks beautiful because of her attitudes. I girl looks beautiful from the way she is walking when eyes are on the ground. I girl looks beautiful when she smiles without showing her teeth, I girl looks beautiful when she control her voice and a girl looks beautiful when she talks softly. An old fashion parents will look at these criteria before making her as her daughter in law but of course she must know how to cook and how to handle house. Believe me, one of the secret to increase love between wife and husband is through cooking. Trust me even I have no experience but once you go through it you will remember me.. <wink>
Girl oh Girl
You are precious, you are valuable, you are amazing, you are powerful but try not to bow to the evil words of opposite gender where you might loose your "life" in his grip. Keep it and give it to the write person, the one who deserve it and for sure he is the person called husband. Put your price higher than diamond or be the bird high in the sky where only those who are willing to pay for will own you. Know exactly your real price and don't just bargain it as in the night market.
Be the best to own the best and if you found him, never wait till it' too late. There is no harm in doing so. You start the first step and I'm sure Allah will guide you.
Hope it will be helpful.
(^_^)
Nice to read ur experience :)
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ReplyDeleteAbdulQahar it is really very nice post ,, I'm agreed with you that the girls or women have a special value it's too valuable especially in Islam she has not to compare herself with men ,,, Allah gives her that unique place ,,, she is the one who has directly responsible about educate the children and community as well.I don't understand those who think that job " educate the children and look after them " it is not a job ,,, they wanna do something else that is effected on the main responsibility ,,, Thank you so much ,,,