Greetings of Islam to ...
First of all I'm little disppointed with this internet as I have been waiting since an hour to open a page and just now able to open it. Anyway alhamdulillah finally it opens.
In this post, I would just like to share my own opinion about few things and it has no realtion with anyone. I personally hope we will get benefit and awards from Allah.
The Bun:
Recently, my eyes caught a picture in Facebook. I think the article is quite old and perhaps I was not alert about it. It is about bun. Before that, I personally realized that the styles of wearing scarfs are getting stylish and modern from day to day. For more images google it. ^^
When I looked at it, I asked myself that why they(women) are complicating their life and making the scarf which is very easy to wear become a very complicated process. Twisted here and there, make a U- turn and so on.
Currently, when I saw that picture, I read the responds from the "Ustazah" stating that women can make their bun high as longs as they cover the "aurat" (the part of the body that must be covered). At the beginning I was smiling a bit and thinking that why this Ustazah answered like this? I'm asking back a question that if making the bun high is acceptable as long it covers the aurat, how about legging pants? They also covers the aurat. Isn't it ??
Here what I understood by what she means from "cover aurat" is protecting your skin being seen by others where showing the shape is acceptable. It did not give the exact meaning of cover the aurat.
Hair of a woman is a part of aurat and it must be covered. Making the bun high will certainly show the shape or the length of hairs where when people look at it, they will be wondering and imagining it. So it is clear that she shows her aurat to the public and perhaps wanting the "praises" from the public "wow she has long hair, she is gorgeous, stylish and so on" which brings and leads to sins. Nauzubillah.. So here I feel the answer is just unreasonable and if most of people think it is reasonable, then what is wrong with legging pants? It protects the skin as well.
The exact meaning of cover the aurat is not clear and what most of the women understood is "protect your skin from being visible to others". Cover the aurat means protect the color, the shape of certain part of your body from being visible to public except those who are your muhrims (has the right to see it). So making your bun high is clearly unreasonable to me.
Make Up
Another issue that I realized is make up. I have read a few post in FB where the discussion was absolutely hot and all about make up. Islam never obstacle women from being beautiful.
But there are limits, and conditions. Firstly, Islam encourages women to be beautiful for their husband to strengthen the bonds of love, be romantic, and obstacle her husband from falling to another women. <wink> If the wife wore just "simple dimple" in the house but going to work or outside she wears like a queen, I think the husband will prefers staying outside. So be beautiful to your husband, wear as romantic as you can and believe me you will get rewards from Allah. Use just little powder where i will not grab the attention of public on you if you are going outside or to work.
For the single one, it is better to control and appear in public as simple as you can. Let me share something with you. When I was in a college there was an issue about wearing niqab (part that cover the face except eyes) and the reason given was "protecting themselves" but when I look at them talking with boys, laughing and so on, I said useless.
I don't blame them but I just want to say to protect yourself from external harm just control your appearance, behavior and your eyes. I good person will look down when she is walking and she knows when to joke and with who. Red hot lipstick will surely grab the attention of a boy from a 100 meters far and from there where the external harm started to attack the prey. And why covering the natural beauty behind the thick powder?
The Love
The last thing I want to write about is love. Actually, I just feel pity on my friends and most of the time seeing them uploading picture all about love. I know love is very powerful, beautiful and so on. The nature of love is it should gives us peace, calmness and should bring us close to Allah. There is no relation exist between a boy and a girl before marriage. If you love someone, go and propose. Express the feelings of your heart to the parents, show to them that you really want to marry their daughter.
Some people when both side accept the love, the blindly said that they already met their life partner. Oh come on, do you know what will happen in the coming second? Nobody knows about it. Accepting someones love and been accepted is just the matter of business I called it. You sell , I buy. That's all.
I never claim of refused that I have never been in love. If you fall in love, I will say congratulation because it shows that you are normal person, getting bigger day by day but how you treat your love is the matter. If we truly love someone form deep of our heart, will we grab her to hell or heaven ? So to heaven there is only a way which is marriage and to hell, as you wish which way to go.
If you fall in love with someone and break up, remember that either you do not deserve her or she doesn't because either you are too good or she. So, never doubt in the choice of Allah as He will choose the one that you deserve. Wanting the best, the good, so simple be the best and be the good.
Wallahua'lam..
Abdul Qahar
First of all I'm little disppointed with this internet as I have been waiting since an hour to open a page and just now able to open it. Anyway alhamdulillah finally it opens.
In this post, I would just like to share my own opinion about few things and it has no realtion with anyone. I personally hope we will get benefit and awards from Allah.
"The Almighty does not judge you based on your features or bodies but based upon your hearts & deeds."
Prophet Muhammad PBUH
Prophet Muhammad PBUH
The Bun:
Recently, my eyes caught a picture in Facebook. I think the article is quite old and perhaps I was not alert about it. It is about bun. Before that, I personally realized that the styles of wearing scarfs are getting stylish and modern from day to day. For more images google it. ^^
When I looked at it, I asked myself that why they(women) are complicating their life and making the scarf which is very easy to wear become a very complicated process. Twisted here and there, make a U- turn and so on.
Currently, when I saw that picture, I read the responds from the "Ustazah" stating that women can make their bun high as longs as they cover the "aurat" (the part of the body that must be covered). At the beginning I was smiling a bit and thinking that why this Ustazah answered like this? I'm asking back a question that if making the bun high is acceptable as long it covers the aurat, how about legging pants? They also covers the aurat. Isn't it ??
Here what I understood by what she means from "cover aurat" is protecting your skin being seen by others where showing the shape is acceptable. It did not give the exact meaning of cover the aurat.
Hair of a woman is a part of aurat and it must be covered. Making the bun high will certainly show the shape or the length of hairs where when people look at it, they will be wondering and imagining it. So it is clear that she shows her aurat to the public and perhaps wanting the "praises" from the public "wow she has long hair, she is gorgeous, stylish and so on" which brings and leads to sins. Nauzubillah.. So here I feel the answer is just unreasonable and if most of people think it is reasonable, then what is wrong with legging pants? It protects the skin as well.
The exact meaning of cover the aurat is not clear and what most of the women understood is "protect your skin from being visible to others". Cover the aurat means protect the color, the shape of certain part of your body from being visible to public except those who are your muhrims (has the right to see it). So making your bun high is clearly unreasonable to me.
Make Up
Another issue that I realized is make up. I have read a few post in FB where the discussion was absolutely hot and all about make up. Islam never obstacle women from being beautiful.
"Allah is beautiful and likes beauty".
But there are limits, and conditions. Firstly, Islam encourages women to be beautiful for their husband to strengthen the bonds of love, be romantic, and obstacle her husband from falling to another women. <wink> If the wife wore just "simple dimple" in the house but going to work or outside she wears like a queen, I think the husband will prefers staying outside. So be beautiful to your husband, wear as romantic as you can and believe me you will get rewards from Allah. Use just little powder where i will not grab the attention of public on you if you are going outside or to work.
For the single one, it is better to control and appear in public as simple as you can. Let me share something with you. When I was in a college there was an issue about wearing niqab (part that cover the face except eyes) and the reason given was "protecting themselves" but when I look at them talking with boys, laughing and so on, I said useless.
I don't blame them but I just want to say to protect yourself from external harm just control your appearance, behavior and your eyes. I good person will look down when she is walking and she knows when to joke and with who. Red hot lipstick will surely grab the attention of a boy from a 100 meters far and from there where the external harm started to attack the prey. And why covering the natural beauty behind the thick powder?
The Love
The last thing I want to write about is love. Actually, I just feel pity on my friends and most of the time seeing them uploading picture all about love. I know love is very powerful, beautiful and so on. The nature of love is it should gives us peace, calmness and should bring us close to Allah. There is no relation exist between a boy and a girl before marriage. If you love someone, go and propose. Express the feelings of your heart to the parents, show to them that you really want to marry their daughter.
Some people when both side accept the love, the blindly said that they already met their life partner. Oh come on, do you know what will happen in the coming second? Nobody knows about it. Accepting someones love and been accepted is just the matter of business I called it. You sell , I buy. That's all.
I never claim of refused that I have never been in love. If you fall in love, I will say congratulation because it shows that you are normal person, getting bigger day by day but how you treat your love is the matter. If we truly love someone form deep of our heart, will we grab her to hell or heaven ? So to heaven there is only a way which is marriage and to hell, as you wish which way to go.
If you fall in love with someone and break up, remember that either you do not deserve her or she doesn't because either you are too good or she. So, never doubt in the choice of Allah as He will choose the one that you deserve. Wanting the best, the good, so simple be the best and be the good.
"To me, nothing is sweet in life till you love each other because of Allah and pray to be in His heaven again "
Wallahua'lam..
Abdul Qahar
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